Thank you for sharing. We too are seniors who have sexual issues related to health. We have to do what you have find a new way to do things. We have chosen to be grateful for what we still can do sexually. That is clearly what you n your kind sexy wife have done.
Due to heart failure I can’t have prolonged sexual intercourse. My wife has been kind n accepting. We do lots of creative foreplay then have intense pounding sex for usually no longer than two minutes or so. MH introduced us to role play n that has been great too.
My wife n I used to cum simultaneously during intercourse but now she needs me orally loving on her nipples in order to cum. Although we also do “tip on nip” and that can trigger her orgasm too. She uses a vibrator as I suck on, play with, etc. on her more than ample breasts.
Sometimes my Melody cums before intercourse and even more often after. She’s has always liked a good pounding fuck but now it has to be a brief 2-minute one or my heart can’t handle it.
For 27 years of our 30-year marriage my wife has needed a viberator to climax. She has neurological issues plus my early-onset RA made it so I could not manually stimulate her clitoris long enough for her to cum. Although she loves cunninlingus when in the mood, she can not climax from it. So we view vibrators to have been a blessing to our marriage.-
Lately other health issues have required us to modify and adjust. We are very philosophical about it. We are like you in that we are grateful for what we still CAN do! And like you, we do it a lot more since retirement!
I used to cum when Melody gave me felkatio. She has developed amazing skills over our long marriage. But for a few years now I’ve needed to alternate her oral loving with pumping my rod. Then she’ll return to the fellatio. Lately I usually finish in her pussy. Honestly I can’t complain. Cumming in her pussy is so awesome!
And yet Melody’s pussy lately hurts at the start of penetration. This is new n we have consulted with doctors who say her vagina and labia are as healthy as a horse (a mare). So we’ve needed to find ways to make it less painful. Interesting that Melody still cums nearly every time we share a lovemaking session.
All this being said, I’m still so impressed by you n your lover-wife finding ways to be sexually active together!!!
It is amazing to us how our sexual relationship has evolved and in spite of the challenges has become even MORE fulfilling over time!
